I'm dating Adam now. He's younger and more femme. And I don't know how to deal. More with the latter than the former. What is our sex life going to be. We've already had sex but nothing, er, insertive. And I've been the bottom with Dennis and a little with Robert. Come to think of it, Robert and I had a weird sexual relationship. He did fuck me once. I wanted that so much because I did like him but I wasn't totally comfortable with my body. But that's over and done with. So, with Adam, we only do just rubbing and mutual masturbation. And I'm just not comfortable that that is all he wants. Do I want more? Yeah, I do want more sometimes. And I've been conditioned with gay porn that sex is supposed to be more too. I don't know. I feel bad. Should I be upfront with potential guys that I am a bottom and therefore he should be a top? When does that come in? And should we have sex first, a relationship later? I think there's something wrong with that. I have standards and morals, even if I *am* gay.
posted by Joe 1:27 PM